One of the first questions I want to write about is "Do you think people change?"
When I was younger, I would have answered with a resounding "no." But, I feel this is a more complicated question than it seems. When originally asked that question it's normally in reference to "does a leopard change his/her spots" type of question. But it's really not as shallow as it first seems.
One of my favorite quotes is by Alvin Toffler "Change is not merely necessary to life - it is life."
|Change: by Alvin Toffler|
This holds true on both a broader scale as well as a more personal one. Change is everything. Change is all. It is ambivalent and apathetic - neither good nor bad. It simply is. Therefore, to truly live, we are constantly changing.
What mustn't change is our inner core of being. We can be open to experience and change, but you must still have a sense of self. You must remain true to your being. No one knows this better than parents. You have created this being that is so much like you, and so dissimilar. And often, when you have very small children, you tend to lose yourself in them.
So, simply put - do people change: yes. All the time. Even by trying not to change, the influences around them as well as the information that they are exposed to, are constantly changing. And thus, their perceptions, ideas, and thoughts are also in a constant state of fluctuation.